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  • Sabre's tale

    Something I wrote for the Dobermann Welfare Association;

    'Hello there! My name is Sabre! Earlier this year, I found a new home through the Doberman Welfare Association, so I thought I’d share my story.

    I had a very good life with my owner, but sadly, due to circumstances, I had to move. First I went to a Foster home with two lovely people who looked after me very well. One Saturday, we had some visitors at the foster home; two very nice people came by for a cup of tea. I thought they were very friendly, as they played with me and took me for a walk. I didn’t know it then, but these two people were going to be my new mum and dad.

    A week later they came back to the foster home, and this time they took me with them. We had to drive a very long time, and I didn’t really know what was going on, so I was a little bit nervous. Luckily, we had plenty of stops along the way, and eventually we got to my new house. Straight away, I had a good look around all the rooms. I particularly like the garden which is really good for playing football and rugby! (I’m quite a sporty star, you know!)
    It had been about 4 weeks of quite a lot of change in my life, so it took me a little while to figure out what was going on. Especially the first weekend I was a bit nervous. But that didn’t take long at all! My new house had lots of space especially for me, with comfy chairs and sofas with my name on it and I settled in as if I’d always lived there.

    I’ve been in my new home for 4 months now, and I am one happy dobie! I take my mum and dad on lots of walks every day. Most days we play with my ball on a big field. There are lots of other dogs there as well. I like having a little play with them, as long as they don’t go near my ball!

    We go on long walks in the forest as well, I’ve discovered every little path there is. I love running straight into the mud, I always get covered in it! But I won’t go in the water in the stream to wash off; swimming is just not my thing. Mum says I’m a prim and proper princess (when she ignores the mud on me) and Dad thinks I’m a bit of a wimp. They’re both a bit right really; I can be a bit of a princess, and also a big wimp. The smallest little things can scare me sometimes, even the odd fly!

    Mum and dad say I’m very well behaved. We still like to train together, but really, I already know it all. The only thing they always say is that I will eat anything and everything! If anything is lying around in the street, or in the forest, and I see it before they do, I will eat it! Yum!!

    I want to say a big Thank You to Sue from the Doberman Welfare association for matching me with my new mum and dad. We’re very happy together and after the upheaval during the first 4 weeks of this year, everything has worked out really well!'
    Sabre

  • happy forever

    This couple I know; they're friends of IRP. They're splitting up. They were together for 24 years. I think it's very sad.

    It's not something I know about in relationships, or something I understand. My parents are still together, after a total of about 40 years. I believe they meant it when they got married. Unlike nowadays, where it seems people get married knowing divorce is a realistic option.

    Anyway, one of this couple said it was because they grew apart a lot in a short space of time. This was due to the other one starting a career once the kids were old enough. Work apparently took over, and the family started coming second more and more. Of course I don't know all the details.

    I don't think the problem was that she was now working. The problem (one of many probably) was that she let it take over. It must have been possible to fit a career in alongside the family. I think many of us are in that situation; it's the work-life balance.

    But the whole thing got me thinking. Like I said, I don't understand. After so many years, how can there suddenly be something that can't be worked through anymore. Is it really a case of reaching the end of your tether? Is it giving up, no longer making the effort, and throwing all those years together away?

    Marriage is supposed to be for life. Call me old-fashioned, but I like that principle. It may be easy for me to say, as it never really has featured on my 'to-do list' for life. And it still doesn't, as I view it as such a big commitment, I'd want to be sure it was right.

    I do want to be with someone for ever, if you know what I mean. It may even be IRP, you never know. I was thinking, people tend to be in a relationship for quite some time before they get married. You pretty much know the imperfections in your partner. Perhaps there are then two questions to ask yourself before marriage, beside the obvious 'do you love the other?'.

    Can I accept the little flaws and little things that annoy me in my partner?
    How good are his good qualities and subtleties? Are they things you might easily find elsewhere in a way that appeals to you as much as they do when it's your partner?

  • only 35 minutes to go...

    The Apprentice is back tonight!!!!!!!!!!

    WOOOOOOHOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

    I'm VERY Excited!

  • Things I've done...

    nicked off lots of others...

    1. Bought everyone in the bar a drink
    2. Swam with wild dolphins
    3. Climbed a mountain

    4. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
    5. Been inside the Great Pyramid
    6. Held a tarantula
    7. Taken a candlelit bath with someone

    8. Said "I love you" and meant it

    9. Hugged a tree
    10. Bungee jumped
    11. Visited Paris
    12. Watched a lightning storm at sea Just
    13. Stayed up all night long and saw the sun rise

    14. Seen the Northern Lights
    15. Gone to a huge sports game

    16. Walked the stairs to the top of the leaning Tower of Pisa
    17. Grown and eaten your own vegetables

    18. Touched an iceberg
    19. Slept under the stars
    20. Changed a baby’s diaper

    21. Taken a trip in a hot air balloon
    22. Watched a meteor shower
    23. Gotten drunk on champagne
    24. Given more than you can afford to charity
    25. Looked up at the night sky through a telescope
    26. Had an uncontrollable giggling fit at the worst possible moment

    27. Had a food fight
    28. Bet on a winning horse
    29. Asked out a stranger
    30. Had a snowball fight
    31. Screamed as loudly as you possibly can
    32. Held a lamb

    33. Seen a total eclipse
    34. Ridden a roller coaster
    35. Hit a home run
    36. Danced like a fool and not cared who was looking

    37. Adopted an accent for an entire day
    38. Actually felt happy about your life, even for just a moment
    39. Had two hard drives for your computer

    40. Visited all 50 American states
    41. Taken care of someone who was shit faced

    42. Had amazing friends
    43. Danced with a stranger in a foreign country
    44. Watched wild whales
    45. Stolen a sign

    46. Backpacked in Europe
    47. Taken a road-trip
    48. Gone rock climbing

    49. Midnight walk on the beach

    50. Gone sky diving
    51. Visited Ireland
    52. Been heartbroken longer than you were actually in love
    53. In a restaurant, sat at a stranger’s table and had a meal with them
    54. Visited Japan
    55. Milked a cow think it may have been a fake one tho, at the petting zoo when I was little…
    56. Alphabetized your CDs
    57. Pretended to be a superhero
    58. Sung karaoke

    59. Lounged around in bed all day
    – bed sofa bed sofa bed etc
    60. Posed nude in front of strangers not so much for a picture but naked nonetheless
    61. Gone scuba diving – nope just snorkeling and it scared me…

    62. Kissed in the rain
    63. Played in the mud
    64. Played in the rain

    65. Gone to a drive-in theater
    66. Visited the Great Wall of China
    67. Started a business
    68. Fallen in love and not had your heart broken so far so good
    69. Toured ancient sites

    70. Taken a martial arts class

    71. Played D&D for more than 6 hours straight what is this?
    72. Gotten married
    73. Been in a movie
    74. Crashed a party

    75. Gotten divorced
    76. Gone without food for 5 days

    77. Made cookies from scratch
    78. Won first prize in a costume contest
    79. Ridden a gondola in Venice
    80. Gotten a tattoo
    81. Rafted the Snake River
    82. Been on television news programs as an expert
    83. Got flowers for no reason
    unless he did something naughty that I don’t know about
    84. Performed on stage

    85. Been to Las Vegas
    86. Recorded music
    87. Eaten shark
    88. Eaten fugu what??
    89. Had a one-night stand
    90. Gone to Thailand
    91. Bought a house property anyway
    92. Been in a combat zone
    93. Buried one/both of your parents
    94. Been on a cruise ship

    95. Spoken more than one language fluently

    96. Performed in Rocky Horror Picture Show
    97. Raised children
    98. Followed your favorite band/singer on tour
    99. Taken an exotic bicycle tour in a foreign country
    100. Picked up and moved to another city to just start over
    101. Walked the Golden Gate Bridge
    102. Sang loudly in the car, and didn’t stop when you knew someone was looking
    103. Had plastic surgery
    104. Survived an accident that you shouldn’t have survived
    105. Written articles for a major publication
    106. Lost over 100 pounds luckily I don’t have 100 pounds to loose (weight wise anyway)
    107. Held someone while they were having a flashbackPTSD
    108. Piloted an airplane
    109. Petted a stingray
    110. Broken someone’s heart

    111. Ridden a bike

    112. Won money on a TV game show
    113. Broken a bone
    114. Gone on an African safari
    115. Had a body part of yours below the neck pierced

    116. Fired a rifle, shotgun, or pistol

    117. Eaten mushrooms that were gathered in the wild
    118. Ridden a horse
    119. Had major surgery
    120. Had a snake as a pet
    121. Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon
    122. Slept for more than 30 hours over the course of 48 hours
    123. Visited more foreign countries than U.S. states
    124. Visited all 7 continents
    125. Taken a canoe trip that lasted more than 2 days
    126. Eaten kangaroo meat

    127. Eaten sushi
    128. Had your picture in the newspaper
    129. Changed someone’s mind about something you care deeply about

    130. Gone back to university
    131. Parasailed
    132. Petted a cockroach
    133. Eaten fried green tomatoes
    134. Read The Iliad and The Odyssey
    135. Selected one important author who you missed in school, and read
    136. Killed and prepared an animal for eating

    137. Skipped all your school reunions they’re too far away
    138. Communicated with someone without sharing a common spoken language

    139. Been elected to public office
    140. Written your own computer language
    141. Thought to yourself that you’re living your dream
    142. Had to put someone you love into hospice care
    143. Built your own PC from parts
    144. Sold your own artwork to someone who didn’t know you
    145. Had a booth at a street fair
    146. Dyed your hair
    147. Been a DJ – does the Jukebox count… no I didn’t think so
    148. Shaved your head – no way! Tried to cut my own hair tho, not a success
    149. Caused a car accident
    150. Saved someone’s life

  • Books

    I thought I'd see how many I've read from this list... Quite dissapointing really, considering I read a lot. I always have a book on the go. Actually read 10, but saw the films or tv adaptations of loads. That doesn't really count though, does it...

    1 Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen – seen film
    2 The Lord of the Rings - JRR Tolkien
    3 Jane Eyre - Charlotte Bronte – seen film
    4 Harry Potter series - JK Rowling
    5 To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee
    6 The Bible – mostly the children’s version when I was little

    7 Wuthering Heights - Emily Bronte
    8 Nineteen Eighty Four - George Orwell

    9 His Dark Materials - Philip Pullman
    10 Great Expectations - Charles Dickens
    11 Little Women - Louisa M Alcott
    12 Tess of the D’Urbervilles - Thomas Hardy
    13 Catch 22 - Joseph Heller

    14 Complete Works of Shakespeare - I own them and have read quite a bit but not all
    15 Rebecca - Daphne Du Maurier
    16 The Hobbit - JRR Tolkien
    17 Birdsong - Sebastian Faulk
    18 Catcher in the Rye - JD Salinger
    19 The Time Traveller’s Wife - Audrey Niffenegger
    20 Middlemarch - George Eliot
    21 Gone With The Wind - Margaret Mitchell – seen film
    22 The Great Gatsby - F Scott Fitzgerald

    23 Bleak House - Charles Dickens - seen on tv
    24 War and Peace - Leo Tolstoy – seen film
    25 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy - Douglas Adams
    26 Brideshead Revisited - Evelyn Waugh

    27 Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoyevsky
    28 Grapes of Wrath - John Steinbeck
    29 Alice in Wonderland - Lewis Carroll – seen film
    30 The Wind in the Willows - Kenneth Grahame
    31 Anna Karenina - Leo Tolstoy – seen on tv
    32 David Copperfield - Charles Dickens
    33 Chronicles of Narnia - CS Lewis
    34 Emma - Jane Austen
    35 Persuasion - Jane Austen

    36 The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe - CS Lewis
    37 The Kite Runner - Khaled Hosseini
    38 Captain Corelli’s Mandolin - Louis De Bernieres
    39 Memoirs of a Geisha - Arthur Golden
    40 Winnie the Pooh - AA Milne
    41 Animal Farm - George Orwell – seen film
    42 The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown

    43 One Hundred Years of Solitude - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
    44 A Prayer for Owen Meaney - John Irving
    45 The Woman in White - Wilkie Collins
    46 Anne of Green Gables - LM Montgomery
    47 Far From The Madding Crowd - Thomas Hardy
    48 The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood
    49 Lord of the Flies - William Golding

    50 Atonement - Ian McEwan
    51 Life of Pi - Yann Martel
    52 Dune - Frank Herbert
    53 Cold Comfort Farm - Stella Gibbons
    54 Sense and Sensibility - Jane Austen – seen film
    55 A Suitable Boy - Vikram Seth
    56 The Shadow of the Wind - Carlos Ruiz Zafon
    57 A Tale Of Two Cities - Charles Dickens
    58 Brave New World - Aldous Huxley

    59 The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time - Mark Haddon
    60 Love In The Time Of Cholera - Gabriel Garcia Marquez
    61 Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck
    62 Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov - seen film
    63 The Secret History - Donna Tartt
    64 The Lovely Bones - Alice Sebold

    65 Count of Monte Cristo - Alexandre Dumas
    66 On The Road - Jack Kerouac
    67 Jude the Obscure - Thomas Hardy
    68 Bridget Jones’s Diary - Helen Fielding

    69 Midnight’s Children - Salman Rushdie
    70 Moby Dick - Herman Melville
    71 Oliver Twist - Charles Dickens – seen film
    72 Dracula - Bram Stoker – seen film
    73 The Secret Garden - Frances Hodgson Burnett
    74 Notes From A Small Island - Bill Bryson
    75 Ulysses - James Joyce
    76 The Inferno - Dante
    77 Swallows and Amazons - Arthur Ransome
    78 Germinal - Emile Zola
    79 Vanity Fair - William Makepeace Thackeray
    80 Possession - AS Byatt
    81 A Christmas Carol - Charles Dickens – seen film
    82 Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell
    83 The Color Purple - Alice Walker
    84 The Remains of the Day - Kazuo Ishiguro
    85 Madame Bovary - Gustave Flaubert
    – seen film
    86 A Fine Balance - Rohinton Mistry
    87 Charlotte’s Web - EB White
    88 The Five People You Meet In Heaven - Mitch Albom
    89 Adventures of Sherlock Holmes - Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
    90 The Faraway Tree Collection - Enid Blyton
    91 Heart of Darkness - Joseph Conrad
    92 The Little Prince - Antoine De Saint-Exupery
    93 The Wasp Factory - Iain Banks
    94 Watership Down - Richard Adams

    95 A Confederacy of Dunces - John Kennedy Toole
    96 A Town Like Alice - Nevil Shute
    97 The Three Musketeers - Alexandre Dumas – seen film
    98 Hamlet - William Shakespeare
    – seen film
    99 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory - Roald Dahl

    100 Les Miserables - Victor Hugo

     

  • The princess shall go to the ball

    I spent most of yesterday getting ready for the ball last night. Lots of pampering first, did my hair, got all my bits together. I was really looking forward to it, and decided to start getting ready early.

    So I put on my dress, and looked in the mirror, something looked wrong... It was the zip, it had broken... Suddenly I was stuck in the dress, couldn't get it off, desperately trying to get the zip back to normal without breaking it. But it wouldn't budge, so in the end I had to rip it off... It was awful! Of course I didn't have a back up dress, what to do??? By now it was nearly 5 pm, and we were leaving just before 6...

    So I phoned a friend, and she was kind enough to lend me her dress! Great! Except, she was in a pub about 20 minutes away, her house was another 10 minutes away, and then I'd have to drop her off again, and get back to get dressed and ready on time... Panic!

    But it had to be done. I was back just about 10 to 6, got dressed, got my make-up done, and was ready by 10 past 6. Not bad methinks.

    The ball was really nice! I had a lovely time. IRP had a good time too I think. The food was good. We were there with some other friends, which was nice. It was all a bit painful this morning, but not too bad so it was worth it.

  • Flowers and the dog in pictures

    FlowersSabredog

  • Valentine *gush*

    The day of love is here! And for once, I'm not on my own! Great stuff!!!!!

    To be honest, I wasn't expecting much, as IRP is hardly mr Romantic. But I was wrong, he knows how to keep the lady happy. I got the biggest bouquet of flowers, it is absolutely beautiful!

    I suppose I half-expected flowers, as these are his preferred gift. I think it's an easy way out for him, not much hassle and not difficult to pick. But then he had a card as well! It was just the most perfect card, it simply said:

    'To my girlfriend, My Valentine, just to say; I love you (with all my heart)'

    How lovely is that!!! I just loved it!! He added some words himself as well. I was very impressed!

    Of course I never got him a card, because I didn't think he'd be bothered, so I just ran out to get one... I did get some nice undies for later tonight, so it's not like I'd made no effort at all.

    We're off out to the Valentine's Ball. I've got my dress ready, my hair done, so all sorted. Got some awful bridget jones undies to go with the dress first, so I'll make sure IRP doesn't catch sight of that... I will look fab tonight tho!

    Happy Valentine's day everybody! Big hug, share the love around today!

  • twitter 2

    Well, I've joined twitter. I have made connections with Barack Obama, Jonathan Ross, Jeremy Clarkson and Cheryl Cole...

    I'm not convinced it's a useful tool so far...

  • Twitter

    Is twitter just a lazy way of blogging, or is it a slimmed down version of facebook, i.e. status updates only? Hmm...

    Feel free to discuss while I go to investigate...

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